If, like me, the client has hoards (not to say they hoard) of wonderful, memorable items they simply cannot part with, I have realized that those words sound like fingernails on a chalkboard.
I have changed my spin on the duty ahead of us..."Can't you just imagine if these were all consolidated and put in a more prominent place as a collection, the impact they would have as a unit?"
I will go on to describe the process of categorizing their treasures into "like items".
When we finally get to the task of "cargo re-imagining", it often appears as though a tornado has touched down. It only lasts for a short period of time and the results are liberating. What at one point was occupying their minds as "too much cargo", now may appear as a table scape or offer up more utility and purpose.
Taking pictures is a useful tool as well, as everything looks different two dimensionally as opposed to standing in the middle and having the advantage of perspective and 360 degrees of rotation. When the room is seen in whole, it may seem better appointed. Seeing it in pictures, helps to identify spots needing more attention.
And very often, things evolve as items find their rightful resting places...
The whole project is an ongoing "work of art". And like a master painter, at some point you have to know when to quit. There is no such thing as perfection.
The job of the Peripatetic Designer is to "walk around" with the client, help them categorize, minimize and maximize all of the items they adore.
"Yes, no, maybe...here, try this."
You will find out a great deal about the person by the treasures that they keep.
I now have realized that I can't ever say anything approaching "busting", as though some things will have to go. And I truly believe what I tell them, "You won't need to get rid of anything. It is all a matter of how they are arranged, organized and displayed."
There was a PBS special lately where they took viewers on a tour of several unusual dwellings. One was the home of a man who never throws anything away. And I mean anything. It was absolutely amazing what he had done. His entire home was like a museum of artifacts. He had jars of nails and other mundane everyday items. The way he had organized and displayed them was the difference between hoarding and art. Eventually items found their rightful places. He was especially fond of jars as they held all of the items for display. Each jar ended up with a "hood ornament", something wonderful topping it off.
The most important thing about making a home is to remember that it is yours. There is a point that accumulations become hoarding, but it is a very fine line and more a matter of what it is doing in your life rather than in your home.
I think the test is if you can move an item without getting overly anxious.
Moving it doesn't mean it is leaving. At least not yet.
There is always tomorrow.